In the spirit of the holiday, today our goal is to avoid the curse of expectation...your own, and those of others. Every holiday I build up this ambitious plan in my mind about how things are going to go so perfectly...and every holiday I seem to be disappointed. This weekend, I'm simply going to let things be, and I suggest you all do the same. Just enjoy the moment for what it is, rather than aiming for some perfect ideal you were brainwashed into by 80's sitcoms. Kick back with a glass of wine, take advantage of the opportunity to spend time with your friends and family, and stop obsessing over all the planning and preparation-just savor the day.